Behaviour

permit me please but i want to try and clear up some past issues it seems if someone writes something that someone else doesnt like, sometimes the person who has taken a dislike to what is written gets emotionally charged to the point of writing angrily about the original writer If someone writes something you dont like, it may annoy you, it isnt necessarily being deliberately offensive , it isnt necessarily targeted at you people have a right to disagree with you, its not a personal attack on you because they disagree with you someone may be repetitive on the site, you don't have to read it, if you know someone is prone to it, then think twice about reading it through... getting angry is often not a good solution to an issue, anger is usually a temporary emotion, take a break rather than write something angry on the forum you can block specific people if you don't want to see anything they write two people can read the same words and react completely differently to those words... at the end of the day these are words on an internet page, they arent that important in your lives, your livelihood doesnt depend on what is going on on this site... someone disagreeing with you here isnt really going to impact your life in any major way... please put it in perspective where someone puts a point of view, someone may put a counterbalancing point of view, this is pretty normal in a healthy debate or dialogue... if you don't like people disagreeing with you, this sort of forum may not be for you its not about people feeling they are better than you because they disagree with you, its just they disagree, people arent necessarily trying to put you down by disagreeing with you... we all have slightly different opinions and experiences that can be contributed here to enhance peoples understanding around tramping. you aren't necessarily "wrong" because someone disagrees with you, we can agree to disagree and theres more than one way to go about things often... no one has a monopoly on knowledge. don't assume someone is trying to claim they know better, don't assume someone is trying to annoy you deliberately by disagreeing with you.. its a forum about thoughts and ideas, its not about personal one upmanship or point scoring... someone disagrees with you, thats all there is to it, dont assume they are angry at you when they disagree its easy to try and read emotions into things that are written when the emotion you thought was there actually isnt, you may be the only person expriencing that emotion based on a misunderstanding on how you perceive the words you are reading be kind be respectful. be positive talk it through.